WHEN WOMEN GATHER

We have been in this home since 2011. For most of that time I would dream of having people in my space, women particularly, gathered in circles, sharing their hearts within a trusted safe space, and being creative alongside one another. I had officially been back in my home after a long separation for exactly 3 weeks when I moved this idea from just a dream to a reality. I honestly cannot believe how quickly and seamlessly it transpired, after having such a block for years to make it manifest. I guess they say when the time is right…

Everyone brought a little treat to share. It felt so nourishing and abundant… from delicious homemade herbal teas to salad and hummus to fresh fruit. We sat around my tiny kitchen table and snacked and eased our way into getting to know one another. I had spent time with each of these women one on one a few times, but they had not spent intimate time with each other. It was so beautiful to witness the coming together of different personalities, all of which I adore.

We eventually made our way to the backyard. It was evening time and the string lights were on alongside the stars shining down on us. We could hear the laughter of our children running around the woods while James chased them and kept them entertained. We lit some candles, added a few items of symbolism around them and burned some copal. One of my friends noticed that the smoke made its way to each of us in a circle after it was lit. I thought that was a really beautiful thing for her to witness.

We grabbed a deck of oracle cards and decided to pull a card for the person next to us and go around the cirlce, pulling and reading for each other. Just as we were about to begin Ava ran over and sat in the circle with us, so we let her begin the pulling of the cards. It was such a sweet moment, and she intuitively pulled exactly what my friend needed to hear. Each card spoke to us on an individual level, but also ended up feeling like a collective message for us all as well. We each walked away with whispers from the Fruit, the Mountain, the Fire and the River.

Below are a couple short video snippets of the moment. I didn’t take too many photos b/c I was mostly in the moment, but I did try to capture a sliver for rememberance. I’m always grateful when I do. I look forward to allowing this community connection to grow and flow as it wants to. This felt like a really sweet beginning point.